The Best Present

Present and Present

Christmas is a multi-day event for my family. The day before is filled with wrapping, decorations, and making the staging area just right. The day itself is for immediate family, with our group of four exchanging presents. Later in the day, we usually visit local family, with a few more presents to exchange. The next day or so, grandmothers visit, and those gifts are also passed around. It sometimes feels like overkill, but for the most part it works, and everyone gets more or less what they want. (This year, for me? Really good socks and a treadmill. I live a very exciting life.)

However, this year was different, because in addition to taking care of our own needs, we also did something altruistic and deep. I'm not going to get into the details of it, because they are private, but our commitment here was more significant than we usually do, despite coming at the end of a highly challenging year.

What I've discovered from the act was that it has stayed with me, even in small moments and unoccupied times. Where you might find seasonal depression, concerns about crass capitalism, or worries that the kids are being spoiled, now I've got the memory of giving. Instead of obsessing about how we're going to make what we need to make, or just how short the year has been, it's more of a confidence that, well, we did that, and it will come back in time and in measure.

It's kind of like the counter-balance to grief. We had a beloved pet pass away far too soon a while back, and I can make myself feel bad just about any time I care to, just by remembering that day. But now, I can make myself feel good, just by remembering the gift. If you are of a means to do so, I can't recommend the presence of this kind of gift in your life highly enough.

And with that, I'm going to call an end to 2015 posts on the M&AD blog and on LinkedIn, and see you all in a week. It's time to clear out the fitness goals, work on the nooks and crannies of the house that have missed my previous attention, binge on some Netflix (I've finally cracked open "House of Cards", and by heaven, it's great), play video games with the kids and get away from the writing addiction for a little while. We'll be back for the usual 3X weekly schedule in 2016, and as a final gift to you, this: we got through the entire month of December without resorting to a listicle or calendar-driven futures pieces. Of such small moments are holiday miracles, and memories, made.

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